Over the years, I’ve been privileged to be able to incorporate actual stories and lessons learned from my coaching practice into both my fiction and non-fiction books. Here’s what I’ve learned… REAL LIFE experiences […]
Does Jesus Understand Our Sexual Struggles? – Part 3
Does Jesus Understand Our Sexual Struggles? – Part 3
In John 4, we read about Jesus’ encounter with a Samaritan woman who was drawing water from a well. He asks her for a drink, and she’s shocked that a […]
Does Jesus Understand Our Sexual Struggles? – Part 2
Does Jesus Understand Our Sexual Struggles? – Part 2
Jesus showed us by example that the sexual thoughts and feelings we all have are not sinful! How do I know? Because if Jesus had sexual thoughts and feelings and yet was […]
Does Jesus Understand Our Sexual Struggles? – Part 1
Does Jesus Understand Our Sexual Struggles? – Part 1
I usually give the audience several minutes to discuss this question, and then I ask for folks to shout out their conclusions. On occasion someone will respond, “No. Jesus wasn’t […]
Why is the Song of Solomon in the Bible? – Part 2
Why is the Song of Solomon in the Bible? – Part 2
I believe that God knew from the beginning of time that sexual passion would be the main topic that would appeal, distract, occupy, confuse, bewilder, arouse, and fascinate us more […]
Why is Song of Solomon in the Bible? – Part 1
Why is Song of Solomon in the Bible? – Part 1
On a flight from Dallas to Los Angeles, I once found myself seated beside two middle-aged gentlemen who were obviously traveling together and who were each obviously involved in some […]
Healing the Scars of Pre-Marital Sex – Part 1
Healing the Scars of Pre-Marital Sex – Part 1
Do most Christians know that God intended sex only for marriage? Most likely. Do humans always live according to that belief? Certainly not. In fact, rarely might even be a word I’d venture […]
Why Does God Say Sex is Only for Married People? – Part 3
Why Does God Say Sex is Only for Married People? – Part 3
Not only is restricting sex to marriage best for individuals, it’s also what keeps society from both imploding (through the decline of moral character) and exploding (through uncontrolled population expansion). […]
Why Does God Say Sex is Only for Married People? – Part 2
Why Does God Say Sex is Only for Married People? – Part 2
I think we can best understand why God intends sex only within marriage by examining how God designed individuals to best function, and how God designed society to best function. […]






