Want to know how to make a healing choice in a marriage with ghosts from your spouses’s past? My husband and I came into our marriage twenty-five years ago with […]
Getting Over Your Spouse’s Past – Part 1
Getting Over Your Spouse’s Past – Part 1
Recently we were traveling down a two-lane highway when we approached a blockade stretching from one side to the other. An entire section of the road had collapsed, presumably under […]
The Danger of Turning Fantasy Into Reality
The Danger of Turning Fantasy Into Reality
When one of my coaching clients tells me that they are considering turning a fantasy into a reality, a red flag always goes up in my spirit. I want to […]
Thoughts vs. Actions
Thoughts vs. Actions
Expecting a human being to never think sexual thoughts is like expecting monkeys to never think about bananas or expecting birds not to think about flying. Sorry, but it’s never […]
Rules of Mental Engagement
Rules of Mental Engagement
The voice on the other end of the line was quite feeble, and I could tell that she was on up in years. She said she’d just read some of […]
Getting on the Same Page Sexually – Part 2
Getting on the Same Page Sexually – Part 2
Let’s consider the unique roles God gave men and women. God designed men as the “progenitors” of the human race. They are wired to ensure the continuation of the generations. […]
Getting on the Same Page Sexually – Part 1
Getting on the Same Page Sexually – Part 1
“I just want to feel connected to my husband!” Gina cried in my coaching office. The next day I met with both Gina and her husband. Upon digging a little […]
Love vs. Lust – Part 2
Love vs. Lust – Part 2
One of the best definitions of lust I’ve ever heard came from James Robison during a television interview I was doing with him and his lovely wife, Betty, on the […]
Love vs. Lust – Part 1
Love vs. Lust – Part 1
Our greatest ally, our sexuality, is too often seen as our greatest evil. For decades we’ve been taught that sexual desire is inappropriate, dirty, raunchy, nasty, predatory, scary, and abusive, […]