If you want to make sure you’re not poking holes in your own bucket of marital bliss, discern which of the three attitudes describes you — stingy, fair, or generous: […]
The Secret to Staying Together Forever – Part 1
The Secret to Staying Together Forever – Part 1
I was recently cohosting the morning show at the local radio station here in Tyler, Texas, with my dear friend Mike Harper, whom I frequently razz about how he “married […]
The Power of Bringing Darkness to Light
The Power of Bringing Darkness to Light
As we hear stories of men sexually torturing women, priests sexually abusing altar boys, teachers seducing students, spouses cheating on one another, and parents molesting their own children, our hearts […]
What If I Think I Married the Wrong Person? Part 2
What If I Think I Married the Wrong Person? Part 2
Walter Bradford Cannon theorized that human nature’s response to tension or stress is to “fight, freeze, or flee,” also known as the “fight or flight” response.(i) Rather than running away […]
What If I Think I Married the Wrong Person? Part 1
What If I Think I Married the Wrong Person? Part 1
When my children were much younger, they’d often come home from school spouting all kinds of information about who did what to whom, and for what reason, and the resulting […]
The Holy House We Live In as Sexual Beings
The Holy House We Live In as Sexual Beings
I’d like you to consider for a moment how I believe God really feels about the topic of our bodies and sexuality, so join me for a little visualization exercise. […]
Getting Past the Past – Part 2
Getting Past the Past – Part 2
I recently spoke to a group of young college women, some married, some single. During a breakout session we conducted an anonymous question-and-answer time where students submitted index cards with […]
Getting Past the Past – Part 1
Getting Past the Past – Part 1
One particular day Greg and I came across a wedding party while walking on the beach in Australia. The bridesmaids had their dress hems lifted high and were making an […]
Turning Painful Memories Into Spiritual Markers
Turning Painful Memories Into Spiritual Markers
A sexually healthy couple is comprised of two sexually healthy individuals, so I encourage you both to be honest about any sexual and emotional baggage that may surface during your […]





