I’ve received a few e-mails over the past two decades from people insisting that the Bible doesn’t expressly forbid sex between two consenting adults. Funny how this question is always […]
What Was God Thinking When He Created Sex?- Part 4
What Was God Thinking When He Created Sex?- Part 4
…continued If we grasped the concept of healthy sexuality, how would it change our sex lives? Our spiritual lives? Our marriages? Our family dynamics? Could we learn to see sexuality as the […]
What Was God Thinking When He Created Sex?- Part 3
What Was God Thinking When He Created Sex?- Part 3
…continued How do we make the transition from “sex-negative” thinking to “sex-positive” thinking so that we can enjoy such a grand and glorious gift as our sexuality? How do we […]
What Was God Thinking When He Created Sex- Part 2
What Was God Thinking When He Created Sex- Part 2
…continued It’s easy to tell when a man or a woman has been indoctrinated into a “sex-negative” way of thinking simply by the words that come out of their […]
What Was God Thinking When He Created Sex? Part 1
What Was God Thinking When He Created Sex? Part 1
Sex is the most scandalous, sinful, shameful thing in the world . . . so be sure to save it for someone you love! If we’re honest, this is […]
Balancing Mismatched Sex Drives – Part 4
Balancing Mismatched Sex Drives – Part 4
When He Wants More There’s also a wide variety of issues that could be draining a woman of her sexual energy, which ironically aren’t that different than the list for men — […]
Balancing Mismatched Sex Drives – Part 3
Balancing Mismatched Sex Drives – Part 3
…When She Wants More (continued) Ray’s words also confirm that there are often emotional issues that dampen a husband’s sexual passion. He e-mails: “Sure, I want a passionate sexual connection with my wife […]
Balancing Mismatched Sex Drives – Part 2
Balancing Mismatched Sex Drives – Part 2
When She Wants More There are many reasons why a man may be struggling with low libido in the marriage bed, particularly: *The use of pornography *Anxiety about work *Excessive masturbation *Health […]
Balancing Mismatched Sex Drives – Part 1
Balancing Mismatched Sex Drives – Part 1
Remembering that each person’s sexuality is as unique as their fingerprint, let’s consider for a moment the wide variety of complexities involved in a person’s sexuality. First, there’s the family […]





