Most of us are well aware of the procreation aspect. Those beautiful babies women give birth to? They are created through the act of sex. Hopefully that’s no newsflash to […]
The Purpose of Sexual Intimacy – Part 1
The Purpose of Sexual Intimacy – Part 1
Extra space was hard to come by in my first apartment. My couch, coffee table, and television ate up almost every square inch of my combination living room/kitchenette, and my […]
Facing our Fantasies
Facing our Fantasies
The road map to understanding both our sexuality and our spirituality is actually comprised of our deepest, most intimate personal sexual fantasies. So we’d be smart to examine such landmarks […]
Legalism vs. Love
Legalism vs. Love
In discussing sexual integrity, most women want a list of dos and don’ts, cans and can’ts, shoulds and shouldn’ts. They want to know: “What can I get away with? How […]
Seeing God in Human Nature
Seeing God in Human Nature
Of course, earthly nature isn’t the only place we can catch glimpses of God. We can also recognize Him in much of human nature, for we are made in God’s […]
Why I Wrote to WIVES vs. Women in General
Why I Wrote to WIVES vs. Women in General
The same question has been posed by several well-intentioned, marketing-minded friends: “Why didn’t you call it The Sexually Confident Woman instead of The Sexually Confident Wife?” While I appreciated their encouragement to reach […]
Gaining our Sexual Bearings
Gaining our Sexual Bearings
Trying to make perfect sense out of two such complex mysteries [as sexuality and spirituality] can feel as frustrating and fruitless as trying to brush our teeth while eating an […]
“Tabletop” Sexuality
“Tabletop” Sexuality
When I address tabletop sexuality in seminars some people blush, assuming I am referring to the variety of sexual positions or places in the house that a couple can experiment […]
Seeing God in Nature
Seeing God in Nature
God often reveals Himself to me through His world on my daily walks. I’ve always sensed His presence whenever I’m in the outdoors, but several years ago I began feeling […]