…continued It’s worth mentioning that women simply take longer (sometimes ten times longer) to reach orgasm than men. While he may only need two or three minutes, she usually needs twenty or thirty minutes. Don’t feel bad about this, as if it’s so much harder on him to perform all that work that you’ll just […]
Hot Tips For Sexually Confident Wives #31
Hot Tips For Sexually Confident Wives #31
Little Marshmallows Enhance Your Love Making At the risk of sounding grossly graphic, has this ever happened to you? You enjoy a romantic dinner with your husband… take a relaxing bubble bath… put on something pretty… slip between the sheets for a little snuggle that just might lead to a whole lot more… and as […]
Defining “Normal” in the Marriage Bed – Part 5
Defining “Normal” in the Marriage Bed – Part 5
Pink Thing #2: Is it normal that I prefer to fake it rather than exert the necessary energy to experience orgasm? With multiple studies quoting anywhere from 50% to 70% of women faking orgasm, I’d have to say this is normal. But just because something is normal doesn’t make it healthy. For example, it’s normal […]
Defining “Normal” in the Marriage Bed – Part 4
Defining “Normal” in the Marriage Bed – Part 4
Of course, men aren’t the only ones who have sexual issues that cause us to wonder, Is that normal? Women can be just as quirky in the bedroom, so let’s explore a few “pink things” that women may wrestle with… Pink Thing #1: Is it normal for women to want to have sex all the […]
Defining “Normal” in the Marriage Bed – Part 3
Defining “Normal” in the Marriage Bed – Part 3
Blue Issue #2: Is it normal that my husband completely disconnects after sex? The movies paint such a dreamy picture of the intimate moments a couple shares after making love. She snuggles up next to him, and he envelopes her with his strong arms. Her dainty head rests peacefully upon his broad, muscular chest. He […]
Defining “Normal” in the Marriage Bed – Part 2
Defining “Normal” in the Marriage Bed – Part 2
Blue Issue #1: Is it normal that my husband wants sex practically all the time? While not all men want sex all the time, most crave it quite often. For some guys, “often” means a few times per week. For some, it can mean every day, or even multiple times per day on occasion. And […]
Defining “Normal” in the Marriage Bed – Part 1
Defining “Normal” in the Marriage Bed – Part 1
While working on my master’s degree in counseling and human relations, we were given a series of in-depth tests designed to reveal every aspect, nuance, nook, and cranny of our personalities. One such test was the MMPI (Minnesota Multiphasic Personality Inventory) where almost 600 questions had to be responded to with only “yes” or “no” […]
Moving Beyond the Missionary Position – Part 4
Moving Beyond the Missionary Position – Part 4
“Baby What a Big Surprise, Right Before My Very Eyes” (Chicago, 1977) In case you haven’t figured it out already, men have two small round organs that kick their sex drive into high gear! You might think they’re located in his pants, but the ones I’m referring to are actually in his head. A man’s […]
Moving Beyond the Missionary Position – Part 3
Moving Beyond the Missionary Position – Part 3
“Your Kiss is on My List of the Best Things in Life!” (Darryl Hall & John Oates, 1980) Do you want my personal translation of Greg’s second response, “When you kiss me – I mean really kiss me?” He was saying, “I don’t just want a ‘peck’ kiss in passing, or a ‘Have a great […]