Sexually Confident Wife

Everything in the world has a purpose, and a pattern which it naturally and instinctively follows in order to fulfill its purpose.  If we examine the pattern that human beings naturally and instinctively follow, you’ll notice that we have an undeniable tendency to gravitate over and over again toward four things:  eating, drinking, sleeping, and […]

Imagine this scenario.  I know my daughter absolutely loves sushi.  So to show her how much I love her, I make an entire tray of the most exquisite California Rolls you’ve ever seen or tasted.  I leave them on the top shelf of the fridge with a note that says, “Enjoy!  I love you!”  But […]

continued… As I began brainstorming to write The Sexually Confident Wife, I made long lists of the numerous obstacles and hurdles that hold women back in the bedroom.  Some were mental obstacles, some were physical obstacles, and some were emotional obstacles.  But our sexuality is comprised of four unique components – the physical, mental, emotional, and […]

continued… I recently decided to conduct a simple, random survey of my own about how spirituality might affect a person’s view of sexuality, and vice versa.  I approached several local college students (some married and some single) and asked each one, “Do you believe there is a God?”  If they answered positively, I followed up […]

In the fall of 1997, I was speaking to a group of parents about proactively instilling sexual values in teenagers.  In a sea of faces typically including men and women in their thirties, forties, and early fifties, this one little blue-haired old lady stood out of the crowd.  She was sitting perfectly upright in her […]

Over the past years, my husband and I have enjoyed seasons where we make love often.  But there’s also been seasons when there was little or no sex at all.  While it’s normal for some men not to be in the mood on occasion, it’s not normal when the occasion lasts a long, long time.  […]

…There’ve been many times in the past when I slipped into the deep, dark abyss of “he just doesn’t meet my emotional needs,” figuring my husband simply didn’t love me any more.  I should have softly approached him and said, “I’m missing you a lot lately.  Can we spend some time together soon?  Maybe go […]

Women aren’t the only ones who occasionally grow cold emotionally and lose sexual interest.  Men have feelings too, and according to many we’ve heard from over the years, their wives have been stomping on them.  “How can I be motivated to have sex at night with the woman who gives me nothing but grief all […]

With a visual image of another human being [through the use of pornography] introduced into the mix, the temptation can be overwhelming to disconnect from one another and focus on a completely different person – a person with whom you can never have a sexual relationship, or any other type of relationship for that matter.  […]