Part 1: When I hear people say that women don’t struggle with sexual issues like men do, I cannot help but wonder what planet they are from or what rock […]
Defining Sexual Confidence
Defining Sexual Confidence
Perhaps you are wondering what it would look like to be a sexually confident wife. First let’s talk about what it doesn’t look like. It’s not about having a great body or […]
God’s Glorious Gifts
God’s Glorious Gifts
Have you ever wondered what God is like, only to look up at a starry sky and sense that there’s your answer? As you look at those twinkling constellations, do […]
Creating Sexual Balance
Creating Sexual Balance
Imagine a child standing directly atop a seesaw, one foot on one side of the fulcrum and one foot on the other. There are moments when he will need to […]
Love the One You’re With!
Love the One You’re With!
At one time I was having extramarital affairs with five different men. First, there was Scott. I met him while volunteering at a summer camp. Scott was so outgoing and […]
A Common Struggle
A Common Struggle
In 2005, Family Circle magazine published the results of a national survey where they asked married women to reveal their innermost desires, needs, regrets, and joys. Consider these results and what they […]
God Knows Our Pain
God Knows Our Pain
Rather than recognizing God as such an extravagant lover, many people see Him as a harsh, impossible-to-please, judgmental disciplinarian. I have a Jewish friend who, when I mentioned how fascinated […]
Avoiding Sexual Extremes
Avoiding Sexual Extremes
God [has called] my attention to an undeniable polarity in my life coaching practice. Some of my clients beat themselves up over the least little sexual thought, feeling as if […]
What’s Robbing YOU?
What’s Robbing YOU?
At one time, I was perhaps one of the most sexually confident women on the planet. I loved my body. I was willing to share it freely. I enjoyed sex. […]