Extra space was hard to come by in my first apartment. My couch, coffee table, and television ate up almost every square inch of my combination living room/kitchenette, and my […]
Why I wrote to WIVES vs. Women in General
Why I wrote to WIVES vs. Women in General
The same question has been posed by several well-intentioned, marketing-minded friends: “Why didn’t you call it The Sexually Confident Woman instead of The Sexually Confident Wife?” While I appreciated their […]
A Personal Report Card
A Personal Report Card
Whether you have a long way to go in the process of becoming a more sexually confident wife, or just a little, is based on where you currently stand. To […]
Defining Sexual Confidence
Defining Sexual Confidence
Perhaps you are wondering what it would look like to be a sexually confident wife. First let’s talk about what it doesn’t look like. It’s not about having a great body or […]
A Common Struggle
A Common Struggle
In 2005, Family Circle magazine published the results of a national survey where they asked married women to reveal their innermost desires, needs, regrets, and joys. Consider these results and what they […]
What’s Robbing YOU?
What’s Robbing YOU?
At one time, I was perhaps one of the most sexually confident women on the planet. I loved my body. I was willing to share it freely. I enjoyed sex. […]
Following The Pattern
Following The Pattern
Everything in the world has a purpose, and a pattern which it naturally and instinctively follows in order to fulfill its purpose. If we examine the pattern that human beings […]
A Perfect Gift From A Perfect God
A Perfect Gift From A Perfect God
Imagine this scenario. I know my daughter absolutely loves sushi. So to show her how much I love her, I make an entire tray of the most exquisite California Rolls […]
Open Lines of Communication
Open Lines of Communication
Women aren’t the only ones who occasionally grow cold emotionally and lose sexual interest. Men have feelings too, and according to many we’ve heard from over the years, their wives […]









