1. Admit that Your Sexual Identity Needs Reshaping Nothing ever gets fixed as long as we deny that it’s broken. Listen to your life. Hear what your soul is trying […]
Cutting Soul Ties That Bind
Cutting Soul Ties That Bind
We all have our own life lessons that our soul longs to teach us, but mine is this: There is a very fine line between spirituality and sexuality, and my hunger […]
Putting Ghosts In Their Place
Putting Ghosts In Their Place
The fall of 1987 was an exciting time. After graduating from high school a year earlier, I was finally going off to college. During my first week in school, I […]
Rewinding Our Mental Tapes
Rewinding Our Mental Tapes
When I was a girl, my mom used to tease me that I was going to wear out the REWIND button on my stereo. I couldn’t get enough of my […]
Restoring Ability to Bond
Restoring Ability to Bond
I wish I had known what powerful superglue oxytocin is much earlier in life. It could have helped me connect more intimately with my husband much earlier in our marriage. […]
The Big “O” Hormone
The Big “O” Hormone
When we are tenderly touched by another human being, a wonderful hormone called oxytocin is released. Then what happens? We feel good about the person who touched us, and we […]
Maintaining Balance in the Sexual Relationship- Part 2
Maintaining Balance in the Sexual Relationship- Part 2
…continued When it comes to marital intimacy for a woman, these four components of sexuality can best be prioritized by visualizing them as multiple layers found beneath the earth’s surface, […]
Maintaining Balance in the Sexual Relationship- Part 1
Maintaining Balance in the Sexual Relationship- Part 1
The secret to having the marriage of your dreams is understanding the need for “sexual balance” in the relationship. To help you understand this concept, let’s look at what I […]
The Purpose of Sexual Intimacy- Part 2
The Purpose of Sexual Intimacy- Part 2
…continued Most of us are well aware of the procreation aspect. Those beautiful babies women give birth to? They are created through the act of sex. Hopefully, that’s no newsflash […]