I wish I had known what powerful superglue oxytocin is much earlier in life.  It could have helped me connect more intimately with my husband much earlier in our marriage.  It also could have helped me prevent “pair-bonding” so deeply with many other men beforehand.  Little did I know that sexual intimacy is like a clear strip of sticky packing tape, bonding us tightly to another.  When that bond is broken, we lose physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual fragments of our being to that person.  We are stuck with similar fragments of the other person, creating “baggage” we carry around internally until we manage to sever those soul ties (which we’ll talk about later).  It becomes harder and harder to stay connected with another human being because we are so accustomed to breaking that bond over and over such that our “tape” is no longer sticky.

 

But becoming a sexually confident wife is all about restoring the stickiness of your tape.  It’s about learning to connect intimately with your husband, not just physically, but mentally, emotionally, and spiritually as well.  It’s about getting on the right track toward genuine intimacy and fulfillment, and rediscovering the true purpose of sexuality — to create a powerful bond between husband and wife that fuels our deepest passions and satisfies our very souls.