Fantasy Fallacy

The road map to understanding both our sexuality and our spirituality is actually comprised of our deepest, most intimate personal sexual fantasies. So we’d be smart to examine such landmarks […]

Trying to make perfect sense out of two such complex mysteries [as sexuality and spirituality] can feel as frustrating and fruitless as trying to brush our teeth while eating an […]

After miles of wandering around in the dark, a weary traveler enters a lonely gas station. The attendant is perched on a stool behind the cash register with her eyes […]

Imagine a child standing directly atop a seesaw, one foot on one side of the fulcrum and one foot on the other. There are moments when he will need to […]

God [has called] my attention to an undeniable polarity in my life coaching practice. Some of my clients beat themselves up over the least little sexual thought, feeling as if […]

Even though actually being raped is considered one of the most traumatic and psychologically disturbing things one could experience, there’s obviously something about the fantasy alone that floats some people’s […]

If I had a dime for every woman who told me she was confused and bewildered by her own lesbian fantasies, I’d be a very rich woman. This seems to […]