…continued Fantasy can comfort us as we age. When I made the announcement on my blog that I was writing this book, I received an email from an […]
How Is Fantasy A Friend- Part 4
How Is Fantasy A Friend- Part 4
…continued Fantasy can help us endure separation. When I speak to military wives, I’m always asked the question, “Is it okay for me to fantasize about sex with […]
How Is Fantasy A Friend- Part 3
How Is Fantasy A Friend- Part 3
…continued Fantasy can warn us about a possible future event. Janie set up a coaching session thinking she’d crossed a horrible line. She was distracted almost daily by […]
How Is Fantasy A Friend- Part 2
How Is Fantasy A Friend- Part 2
…continued Fantasy can motivate us toward an established goal. Amy just lost sixty pounds and feels better (and sexier) than she has in decades. When I asked her […]
How Is Fantasy A Friend? -Part 1
How Is Fantasy A Friend? -Part 1
One of the most frequent questions I’m asked when people learn about how I wrote The Fantasy Fallacy: Exposing the Deeper Meaning Behind Sexual Thoughts in response to the Fifty Shades […]
Pornography: The Fantasy Factory
Pornography: The Fantasy Factory
Porn actors often get reeled into making films because of the incredible emotional rush they feel when someone finds them noteworthy, or “camera worthy.” And not just one person, but […]
Take our Sexual Fantasy True/False Quiz – Part 7
Take our Sexual Fantasy True/False Quiz – Part 7
7. Sexual fantasies are better left unspoken and unexplored. False. Granted, certain individuals have tried to openly share some of their most troubling sexual fantasies only to face harsh consequences, such […]
Take our Sexual Fantasy True/False Quiz – Part 6
Take our Sexual Fantasy True/False Quiz – Part 6
6. Sexual fantasies provide a road map to the sexual fulfillment we crave. False. It’s easy to assume that fantasies must be a roadmap to future fulfillment. If ________ is what […]
Take our Sexual Fantasy True/False Quiz – Part 4
Take our Sexual Fantasy True/False Quiz – Part 4
4. Sexual fantasy and lust are the same thing. False. Now that we’ve established a definition for sexual fantasy, let’s talk about lust. Any time the word lust is mentioned in the Bible, […]






