The Fantasy Fallacy

When I think of sexual repression and expression, I think of a giant red beach ball being forced to the bottom of a pool. The main problem is that it […]

After I speak, I’m occasionally approached by someone wanting to talk. It doesn’t take long before I realize they’re wondering the same thing that many others do. “Where is the […]

In 1 Corinthians 6:9-10, particularly the part about “the sexually immoral not inheriting the kingdom of God,” it’s easy to assume that sexual purity is a salvation matter. I want […]

Last time we focused on what psychology has to say about sexual fantasy, so let’s shift to the other end of the spectrum and consider what the Bible has to […]

It seems that what we learn in psychology class and what we might learn in Sunday school about the topic of sexual fantasy are miles apart. And perhaps you’ve already […]

10. Interpreting sexual fantasies isn’t going to solve any of the world’s problems.    False. Consider for a moment some of the biggest relational problems facing society today.  Marriages that don’t make […]

9. Anxiety, confusion, or fear over sexual fantasies is not a common issue.  False.  Research shows that 84 percent of men and 67 percent of women have sexual fantasies, so I […]

8.  Sexual fantasy is really just the brain’s way of driving us to do evil things.  False. I have a dear friend and mentor, Jarratt Major, who’s an 80-year old […]