People with sexual struggles often find it difficult to connect on an intimate spiritual level with others, but this is precisely the best prescription for understanding and overcoming any issue. […]
Satan’s Limited Role
Satan’s Limited Role
While it’s easy to assume that all of our sexual fantasies are simply Satan’s way of attacking us, let’s be real. Sometimes Satan doesn’t need any help! We’re perfectly capable […]
Retraining Your Brain
Retraining Your Brain
When sexual fantasies feel more like a burden than a blessing, the momentary pleasure they provide can pale in comparison to the long-term anxiety they create. But with focused effort, […]
Coaching Tips and Tools – Part 4
Coaching Tips and Tools – Part 4
Why bring up the past? Why can’t we just leave that swept under the rug? These are the questions most of us ask, primarily out of FEAR of facing “the […]
Fantasy vs. Reality
Fantasy vs. Reality
Psychology tells us that all sexual fantasy is “safe,” and by that I simply mean there is no risk for sexually transmitted infections, no chance of unplanned pregnancy, and no […]
Coaching Tips and Tools – Part 1
Coaching Tips and Tools – Part 1
Over the years, I’ve been privileged to be able to incorporate actual stories and lessons learned from my coaching practice into both my fiction and non-fiction books. Here’s what I’ve learned… REAL LIFE experiences […]
3 Types of Sexual Thoughts – Part 3
3 Types of Sexual Thoughts – Part 3
We’ve been discussing three types of sexual thoughts: auto-erotic, erotic, and illicit. …We have to be incredibly careful when our erotic sexual fantasies turn into illicit fantasies—those involving unlawful or […]
3 Types of Sexual Thoughts – Part 2
3 Types of Sexual Thoughts – Part 2
Last time we talked of three types of sexual thoughts: auto-erotic, erotic, and illicit, focusing on auto-erotic thoughts. The next category is erotic thought, the goal of which is to […]
3 Types of Sexual Thoughts – Part 1
3 Types of Sexual Thoughts – Part 1
As a result of some very interesting conversations with a few counseling professionals, in particular Chris Legg, LPC, I’d like to propose that there are three words that best describe […]