continued… 6. He/She’s not my cup of tea anyway. When a coaching client describes a person as “no one they’d ever be attracted to,” I can see the end of […]
Ten Excuses that Turn Fantasy into Painful Reality- Part 1
Ten Excuses that Turn Fantasy into Painful Reality- Part 1
As a life/relationship coach, I’ve had the privilege of working with some of the most respectable people you’d ever want to meet. These are not rapists on skid row or […]
How Is Fantasy A Friend- Part 5
How Is Fantasy A Friend- Part 5
…continued Fantasy can comfort us as we age. When I made the announcement on my blog that I was writing this book, I received an email from an anonymous […]
How Is Fantasy A Friend?- Part 4
How Is Fantasy A Friend?- Part 4
…continued Fantasy can help us endure separation. When I speak to military wives, I’m always asked the question, “Is it okay for me to fantasize about sex with my […]
How Is Fantasy A Friend- Part 3
How Is Fantasy A Friend- Part 3
…continued Fantasy can warn us about a possible future event. Janie set up a coaching session thinking she’d crossed a horrible line. She was distracted almost daily by thoughts […]
How Is Fantasy A Friend- Part 2
How Is Fantasy A Friend- Part 2
…continued Fantasy can motivate us toward an established goal. Amy just lost sixty pounds and feels better (and sexier) than she has in decades. When I asked her how […]
How Is Fantasy A Friend? Part 1
How Is Fantasy A Friend? Part 1
One of the most frequent questions I’m asked when people learn about how I wrote The Fantasy Fallacy: Exposing the Deeper Meaning Behind Sexual Thoughts in response to the Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon […]
The Power of “One Flesh”- Part 2
The Power of “One Flesh”- Part 2
…continued Once we are giving all that we have, we open our mental channels to receiving the very pleasures we are offering. But the giving has to come before the […]
The Power of “One Flesh”- Part 1
The Power of “One Flesh”- Part 1
If we’re not careful, we can start believing that God is a supernatural killjoy who wants to rob us of pleasure by limiting our sexual partners. However, the reality is […]