We can also mistake people, places, and things for God’s presence. For example, you might think that simply because you attend church, that you’ve spent time with God. Not so. […]
The Reason Behind Burn-out
The Reason Behind Burn-out
We can tap dance our way through this world, but God sees the “why” behind our tap dance. As creative and inspiring as my youth ministry efforts may have been, […]
Accepting No Substitutions
Accepting No Substitutions
Some of you might think: Shannon, I’ve never looked to anything but God to satisfy me. I read my Bible frequently, and I am active in my church and trying to […]
What Are You Settling For?
What Are You Settling For?
Some of us look to food or substances in an effort to fill a void, numb a pain, or satisfy something deep within ourselves. Perhaps one more drink will relax […]
Forsaking All Others
Forsaking All Others
When a bride commits her life to her groom, she promises to “love, honor, cherish, and obey… for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, […]
Relationship vs. Rules
Relationship vs. Rules
What bride wants to feel distanced from her groom? One of the most compelling factors that should motivate us to die to ourselves and submit to God’s correction is that […]
Discipline Creates Disciples
Discipline Creates Disciples
My son recently reminded me about the connection between discipline and love. At ten years old, high-energy Matthew had experienced his fair share of spankings. At one time, my husband […]
Dying to Ourselves
Dying to Ourselves
After I had completed six months of intense individual and group counseling, my therapist kicked me out of her office saying, “Go! You are healed! You don’t need me any […]
A Pure and Spotless Bride
A Pure and Spotless Bride
Just before I walked down the aisle toward Greg, I had to chase away tormenting thoughts such as, I just wish I had saved myself for Him! I hate it that […]









