Hot Tip #2 – Embrace a Sexually Confident Lifestyle
Embracing a lifestyle of sexual confidence is not about having a great body or obsessing over getting one. It’s not about fitting the “young, hot” stereotypical mold. It’s not about being his sexual rag doll, doormat, or vending machine. It’s not about killing your conscience and being willing to do anything and everything to sexually satisfy someone else. It’s simply not about becoming someone you aren’t.
It’s about becoming who you really are, and humans are naturally sexual beings. As a sexually confident wife, you will learn to love your body and feel beautiful in your own skin. You’ll be content with being the best _________ ___________ you can be (fill in the blank with your own first and last names) and not feel the need to compare yourself or your husband to anyone else. You’ll come to believe wholeheartedly that your husband finds you incredibly desirable. You’ll be able to openly communicate what you find pleasurable, as well as what is beyond your personal boundaries. You will feel great about what you have to offer your husband and will be able to relax and freely enjoy all that he has to offer you.
Whether you have a long way to go in this process or just a little, is based on where you currently stand. To help you assess where you are on the sexual confidence scale, click here for a list of 69 questions (pun intended!) to ask yourself (excerpted from The Sexually Confident Wife).