Hot Tips For Sexually Confident Wives #25

Keep Your Heart Soft Toward Your Hard-Working Husband.

There may be seasons throughout the year where you feel like a “widow” due to your husbands work expectations. Is your husband working long hours and often not able to come home until after you’ve put the kids to bed and you’re exhausted? What is your response when your husband delivers the news that he will be home late due to a project his boss has just handed him?

You have a choice to make. You could either:

  1. whine and complain that all he cares about is work, work, work!
  2. give him the silent treatment and pretend it doesn’t bother you.
  3. put on your big girl panties and take dinner up to his office so he’d know how much you care about him.

I’m believing you will choose the latter. When he does come home, he may be too exhausted for sex, so the big girl panties will STAY on. But his heart will be very soft toward you, which for a woman is just as good as sex, right? And sex will be easier to engage in as our hearts remain soft toward one another!

Remember, most men don’t work so hard because they don’t want to be at home. They work so hard because they don’t want to be home-less! They want to be good providers for their family. So let’s cheer our men on and find ways to show them how much we love and appreciate them, ladies!

Wishing you warm hearts & happy husbands,


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by Shannon Ethridge. Copyright 2008.  All Rights Reserved. Published by Random House Inc, New York, NY. Used by Permission. Not to be copied without Publisher’s prior written approval.