Before you step outside for some fresh air and a cigarette, here’s the moral to this story: Don’t make a judgment call on whether you’re ready for a home run before you’ve even experienced first base. The natural laws of female sexual arousal usually demand that we take things one step at a time, even after we have a wedding band on our finger. So instead of responding, “No, I’m not in the mood” most of the time as if you are frigid, at least give him a chance to get you in the mood. Otherwise, you shoot down your chances (and his) of enjoying the sexual intimacy that our minds, bodies, hearts and souls naturally crave.
by Shannon Ethridge. Copyright 2008. All Rights Reserved. Published by Random House Inc, New York, NY. Used by Permission. Not to be copied without Publisher’s prior written approval.