The Sexually Confident Wife

3.  Take a healthy inventory.  Sure, there are plenty of body parts that seem problematic at first glance in the mirror.  For most women, it’s the parts that naturally change […]

If you long feel more confident, here are my top ten tactics for defeating the body image bear next time he challenges you to a mental wrestling match… 1.  Rid your […]

On Saturday Night Live, Billy Crystal (mimicking Fernando Lamas) frequently used to say, “It’s not important how you feel, Dahling. It’s how you look, and you look ma-a-a-hvelous!” But the […]

In the spring of 2007, I spoke in Edmonton, Alberta, Canada at an intergenerational sexuality conference where women gathered at one location, and men gathered at a nearby venue.  On […]

Why are women so hard on themselves, even those who are relatively healthy and look fantastic by most standards? Perhaps it’s because we’ve bought the lie that men want pencil-thin, […]

The interesting thing about body image is that no matter how good we might look, we always think we should look better. Perhaps that’s because 75% of female sitcom characters […]

“Can you lead me to the ‘Sexuality’ section of your store?” The question obviously elicited fear and trepidation in the middle-aged female salesclerk. With a deer-in-the-headlights look on her face, […]

After twelve years of living in the concrete jungle of Dallas, Texas, I was ready for a change. A log cabin home on 122 acres of land was just the […]

I believe a hungry soul is like a vacuum, supernaturally drawing people into our lives that have lessons we subconsciously need to learn. However, once we learn the lesson, we […]