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Boost Your Confidence in the Marriage Bed – Part 3

07/08/2015 by ShannonAdmin

Boost Your Confidence in the Marriage Bed – Part 3

3Confidence Buster #3:  Wearing Granny Panties 

Do you realize that the underwear you choose can either make or break your sexual confidence? As you undress in your husband’s presence, do you feel like catching his eye and flaunting your beautiful body, or running and hiding behind your fuzzy robe?

I know, I know. You may be thinking, But I like my underwear to be extremely comfortable! And I don’t want any pantylines showing through my pants! So you choose to wear great big white granny panties to ensure complete comfort and coverage. Maybe your walk on the wild side includes wearing colored granny panties on special days. Well guess what? Men don’t fantasize about having sex with their grannies, and you don’t have to wear granny panties to get an incredibly comfortable fit!

Confidence Booster #3:  Wearing Comfortable, Sexy Lingerie

I’m a big advocate of throwing all of your granny panties away since discovering Jockey’s “No Pantyline Promise” line of lingerie (www.jockey.com). Their panties come in a variety of shapes and styles, but my favorite is the basic low-rise bikini. Made of a silky stretch nylon with gentle elastic, they really do stay in place so you don’t have to tug at them all the time to keep them out of your crack. They provide a smooth foundation for a sexy silhouette underneath any clothes. And best of all, they make you look (and feel) sexy as all get-out! Combine a black pair of Jockey No Pantyline Promise bikinis with a satiny push up bra, and your husband’s going to chase you down the hallway thinking you look good enough to eat.

When shopping for lingerie, comfort and coverage is important, but so is confidence in the way you look. If you don’t like the way you look in your lingerie, you’re going to assume that your husband doesn’t like the way you look, either. The same goes for pajamas (if you must wear them at all). Climb into bed looking frumpy, and you’re going to feel frumpy. There’s too many cute and comfy camis and shorts and nighties these days to go to bed looking like your grandma! Don’t be afraid to shop for something comfy and sexy!

To be continued…

Miss Part of the Series? Catch up here:

Part 1

Part 2

Excerpted from  The Sexually Confident Wife: Connecting with Your Husband Mind*Body*Heart*Spirit  by Shannon Ethridge. Copyright 2008.  All Rights Reserved. Published by Random House Inc, New York, NY. Used by Permission. Not to be copied without Publisher’s prior written approval.
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